I’ve talked about Zerrie before, which you can read here, and obviously things have happened in the last couple months, mainly when the boys were touring and my opinion of Zerrie has changed a little bit.
We know Zayn doesn’t like the Papz, he’s always been the type of guy where you just live your life without any real intrusion or done much in public and then all of a sudden you’re famous without realizing it and Papz want pictures, news, etc. I don’t think Zayn’s as comfortable with them as the other boys are, Niall just doesn’t give a shit, Liam has made a strong enough point that he wants his private life, private, Louis and Harry find if you give them what they want, they’ll go away, well most of the time.
On the boys day’s off, we can find pics of all the other boys but rarely ever of Zayn, I’ve joked about how he’s anti social but I honestly think he’s just found a way to elude the press on most days.
I think he wants his relationship to be private in the same way he’s managed to keep his life outside the band private.
Yet, I admit the more I think of it the more the relationship confuses the living fuck out of me.
Let’s go back to the beginning…
I admit that right before the boys left for tour with BTR (I think it’s that tour…) back earlier this year, (I can’t remember the month) the first Zerrie pictures that surfaced seemed to have shocked us and I admit it, Zayn did look in that direction as if he knew where the pictures were being taken from, but maybe he’s just that smart, (not that I’m calling him stupid or anything…)
OR maybe he decided to stop hiding the relationship and wanted the pictures.
Yes, that kiss was awkward…but it’s awkward to kiss when you know there’s people watching/taking pictures of you kissing (Elounor is a different situation though).
Yes, there’s been stories of Zayn hooking up with girls, but all it takes is one person to make up a story for a whole bunch of people to follow it. (Again, Larry is different)
Some of you say ‘they aren’t even fans, I looked at their tumblr.’ - really…looking a persons tumblr that they messaged you from, can tell you whether or not they’re a 1D fan? WOW! I didn’t know that. I mean there’s facebook, twitter, etc. And guess what?! You can make more than one account too. :) Same with Tumblr.
So you’re just gonna take a bunch of girls words for it? People you don’t even know (or maybe you do…doesn’t matter) You do realize that people LIE for ATTENTION.
Now I know there was that video of Zayn that surfaced and there was audio of Zayn giving a girl directions and stuff to the hotel, and talking about sex or whatever.
When I saw/heard that I honestly thought he might be the type to sleep around. Has a girlfriend but sleeps around while on tour.
Then something he said at the Alan Carr show made me think of something ‘She understands that I get female attention, and I understand she gets male attention.’ Honestly, just think about it…that sentence can have one of two meanings (that I can think of)
- Attention from fans, in a sexual way, but he wouldn’t do anything so don’t worry about it.
- Attention from fans, in a sexual way, but when they’re on the road, touring and stuff, its okay to sleep with other people. They could very well have an open relationship, where its okay with the other partner if one or both of them sleeps with other people.
That’s what I believe Zerrie is. I believe Zerrie is an open relationship, so everything about Zayn is okay but because they agreed to be in an open relationship, he’s doing nothing wrong.
Danielle and Liam…were Payzer for two wonderful years. Then out of nowhere (to us it was nowhere) they break up, it was the BIGGEST plot twist in this fandom thus far.
I admit, my heart broke when I saw Liam confirm it on the Alan Carr show, and then when they did the hits takeover he confirmed it, and when they were on Le Grande Journal in Paris, he said he was single and it broke my heart.
It seems weird to me how in a fandom as large as ours, hates Liam being single because that means he’s not with Danielle anymore…and as we all know, she’s freakin awesome. You’d think more people would be happy that he’s single but we’re strange and we’d rather have him dating Danielle than one of us or any other girl.
I honestly feel sorry for his next girlfriend, I don’t know when it’s going to happen but it will happen, he’ll find someone and then she’ll get more hate than Eleanor/Danielle/Perrie combined simply because she isn’t Danielle, and then Danielle will be upset with us, and so will Liam.
I want to believe that Danielle and Liam broke up because of distance, because next year’s tour is 10 months, most of the year…and yes she can take vacation time, and go and visit Liam on tour, but still…to travel her days off with his days off must be hard. It has to be hard to be away from the man you love so much, it must be hard to not want a ‘normal’ relationship where you can be with each other in the same city and hang out after work or when she’s having a bad day she can come over to his place and vent and cuddle afterwards.
It has to be hard to keep your relationship going through a computer screen and a few days to spend alone and even then you’re not truly alone, he needs security with him, he has to check in to see if it’s okay to leave the hotel, etc. It’s gotta be hard. It has to be hard to share your boyfriend, especially a guy like Liam, Liam the person, not Liam the guy from One Direction, to share him with millions of other girls. Yes, she’s happy for her…but if you saw fan videos/pictures of everyone meeting the boys and spending time with your boyfriend, when you can’t and he’s YOUR BOYFRIEND, but life keeps getting in the way and things change and everything becomes too much work and you get tired and he’s sad because he can’t keep you happy the way you deserve to be.
When 1D shot to fame, not only did the boys have to deal with it, not only did the boys family and friends have to adjust and deal with it, so did any current relationships they might’ve had at the time, that includes Danielle. No one expected this kind of fame, this soon, but we just love their music and their personalities, so it was a perfect mix for success! But Danielle and Liam might’ve had a harder time adjusting….he needed to be away more, and she would have to see him less and learn to deal with that, being away from him and missing him so much! It’s gotta be the hardest thing in the world, to come online and see him all over the news, millions tweeting you about how perfect you two are together and how you’ll get married and have cute babies and also sending you updates and pics of him. He’s just out of your reach and I bet it sucks!
I guess in the end, everything was too much, she probably changed and he changed, and it was best if they just went their separate ways.
I think it was mutual decision. I’ve heard that when Liam likes someone, he really likes someone and so for him to love a girl for two years and then just have it end like that and having all your fans freak out and tweet about it to both of you, no wonder they took a twitter break for a bit. Let’s remember that this is still a hard time for them, it’s not easy to get over a two year relationship, it’s odd that Liam’s now single…but let’s be supportive, well more than usual to Liam, let’s not hate on him or Danielle for the break up or ask why it happened.
Just let it be.
When I first got into 1D, I knew nothing of them, never heard of them, just knew like 2 songs before I downloaded their album, (but I live in Canada so I bought it when it was released) and I watched ALL the interviews I could watch on YouTube of them, staying up to 4am just to watch more.
While I was watching these interviews, I saw touches, small things, looks…between Lou and Harry and then I came across this one interview It was around 2.12/13 where the interviewer reaches over Harry to touch Lou’s leg, and then Harry gives him this DEATH GLARE, I swear there’s no other way to describe it. Then when the interviewer pulls back, Harry pats Lou’s leg while still giving the death glare to the interviewer.
Also in that interview, when Lou touches Harry’s hand/fingers, his face lights up, kind of like ‘omg my boyfriend just touched me’ the same way a girl would if her boyfriend touched her hand or something and he doesn’t do that often or something.
Its stuff like that, that made me curious, then I read the Reasons Why Larry Stylinson Is Real, master post…through Stop One Direction’s Management , I read their Larry page and everything about management, and me being a big fan of the Backstreet Boys most of my life (since I was 6 and I’m 21 now) I know that they weren’t allowed to have girlfriends or if they got one, they were supposed to deny it, say that they were single or they were just friends. They HATED to lie to us, and I don’t appreciate being lied to, but I was 6 years old, I would’ve died if Nick Carter had a girlfriend and a lot of it was about money of course…Shit went down and they explained that it wasn’t their choice to LIE to us, that they were sorry and wanted to be forgiven.
Which we did, but I was young and I didn’t understand but I let it go, but now I understand, their management STOLE money from them, and just overall treated them very badly and didn’t give them the freedom of choice of what to do with their careers.
A couple years ago, BSB released an album called ‘This Is Us’ and still, it didn’t do as well as expected, just like the album before that, and during the This Is Us Tour, they found out that they’re management wasn’t promoting them like they should’ve been, they just didn’t do anything to help their careers, in fact, from what I read, it sounded like they were trying to bury BSB, and BSB got out of the contract early and went back to another label.
The reason I told you that BSB stuff was to PROVE that management is truly evil and will go at GREAT lengths to PROVE that something is true when it really isn’t!
Trust me, Larry is real, its so real, beard’s are a thing that happens when someone doesn’t want to come out of the closet or management companies doesn’t want them/him/her to come out.
It’s certain things they say, certain things they do, the looks…its not something you’d do with your best friend, even if your straight…you don’t do stuff like that.
People who say ‘Oh I do what Larry does with my best friend and I’m straight’ now that’s a load of bull! To do stuff like that, you obviously have deeper than ‘just friendship’ feelings for your friend, whether they admit that to themselves or not is up to them.
It’s not weird to think Harry and Louis are gay or that they are for each other. If this stuff was happening between a girl and a guy, would it be easier to believe? Yeah, probably for most people, which isn’t right because we’re all supposed to be equals.
Oh and fun fact, I’m Christian. :) So I’m supposed to be anti gay and stuff…and Larry? I’m all for them and they are changing my views on the whole gay thing.
Also read this if you think we’re making Lou upset by shipping Larry.
Now onto Larry VS Other Bromances
Danielle got a shit load of hate too but you didn’t see her whining about it.
Hannah (I wasn’t a fan at the time so idk) probably got a lot, I never heard anything about her whining about it.
Perrie gets lots of hate bc ppl think Zerrie is fake, she doesn’t get upset about it.
Danielle/Perrie - People think Niam/Ziam is legit real. As in a legit real romance. THOSE FANS TAKE IT ‘TOO FAR’ too. But Zayn and Liam, they don’t care. It didn’t bother Dani and it doesn’t bother Perrie. I don’t think it bothered Hannah either.
You might use the excuse ’Eleanor just can’t handle a lot of hate.’ Well then she can either make her twitter private and just block every hate user when they send a tweet, OR LEAVE TWITTER.
There’s lots of other ships with other celeb’s and those fans ‘take it too far’ too, so why is Larry Stylinson the only ship to that no one is allowed to ship because it hurts ‘Eleanor’s’ feelings. FUCK THAT! If she can’t handle that, then don’t have a public account. The only reason Larry is picked on so much is because IT’S SO FUCKING REAL AND management is doing A POOR JOB of hiding it. YOU CAN SEE IN THEIR EYES! IN THE TOUCHES! ITS ALL THE LITTLE THINGS THEY DO! (no pun intended)
I made a page with links on to help with cutting and suicide. I’d really appreciate it if you could pass it around to people and let them know about it, please?